Sara Carton, one of the standout stars of Love Is Blind Season 8, has revealed the emotional and psychological factors that led her to reject Ben Mezzenga at the altar during the show’s dramatic finale. In an exclusive interview with Us Weekly , Sara opened up about the “gut-wrenching” doubts, last-minute revelations, and unresolved tensions that ultimately made her say “I don’t.”
The TikTok Revelations: A Turning Point
Five days before their scheduled wedding, Sara received a TikTok video alleging Ben had mistreated an ex-partner. While the couple initially brushed off the claims, Sara later uncovered more unsettling details. A friend sent her a photo of a business card Ben had allegedly given to past romantic interests, promoting his YouTube channel. “I was like, ‘This is crazy, ’” Sara recalled. “It made me question if he was being genuine.”
Though she chose not to confront Ben about the card, the discovery deepened her unease. “I kept it close to my heart. I couldn’t handle anything more,” she said, explaining that the incident amplified her distrust.
Religion and Values: “I Never Got Answers”
A core issue for Sara was Ben’s reluctance to engage in meaningful conversations about religion, politics, and other values. While Ben occasionally prayed with his family, he never discussed his faith in their daily interactions. “I was confused seeing him pray on our wedding day. If religion is important to him, why didn’t he prioritize sharing that with me?” Sara wondered.
She emphasized that their conversations about values felt one-sided: “I was doing all the asking. He’d say the right things, but there was no depth. I started questioning, ‘Is there weight to these words?’ ”
Family Support: “They Helped Me Trust Myself”
Sara credits her family—especially her sister Lisa, brother-in-law Kelsie, and her parents—with helping her navigate the emotional turmoil. “They grounded me,” she said. “They reminded me it’s okay if he’s not my person, even though I wanted it to work so badly.”
Her family’s rational perspective helped her reconcile her instincts with the show’s high-pressure environment. “They told me, ‘If something feels off, listen to your gut, ’” Sara shared.
The Wedding Day Decision: “Something Felt Off”
Despite Ben’s repeated declarations of love, Sara couldn’t shake her doubts. “He told me he loved me, but I kept thinking, ‘Why do I feel so conflicted?’ ” she said. “I realized it shouldn’t be this confusing to figure out your person.”
Sara admitted she struggled with guilt over her hesitation. “I felt harsh for questioning him, but I knew I couldn’t say ‘yes’ if something didn’t sit right.”Netflix’s Love Is Blind Season 8 Official Page
Final Thoughts and Lingering Questions
When asked if she had any unresolved questions for Ben, Sara quipped, “I wonder if he voted in the 2024 election.” The comment highlighted the lingering disconnect in their communication.
Sara’s story underscores the complexities of love in the Love Is Blind experiment. “It’s a mind game,” she said. “But I learned to stop protecting others and start trusting myself.”
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